We as women tend to give our all as soon as we meet a guy. We want to prove to him that we are worthy when, in fact, he should try to prove his worth to you. Don’t be in such a hurry to call yourself his girlfriend. And don’t be so quick to give him all the perks that come with boyfriend status. Most of all, don’t settle on the first train smoking.
First off, set some perimeters for the relationship. Don’t be scared to ask questions during this awkward time. While you’re dating, just give him a preview of the coming attractions. Prepare a meal once in a while. Let him come and get it. Don’t bring it to him. Don’t let him drive your car or borrow money. Then after two or three months of dating, you should know if you want to take your friendship to the next level, i.e. you are ready for a monogamous relationship.
I personally feel that men have been allowed, for so long, to get away with doing nothing. They refuse to stand on their own two feet. Instead they prey on women who are so desperate for a man that they accept the first one that comes along. As a result of their actions, they put up with the clown instead of kicking him to the curb.
Sisters need to realize that its okay to be alone. You’ll be more stressed out trying to turn a one night stand into a long term relationship. So chalk it up as a loss and keep moving.To recap: Know you. Know what you’re willing to accept and know when to cut it off. Good luck on your journey to finding love.